Today I have a visitor. It will soon be time for me to go home. Where that is I have yet to figure out exactly, but I am on my way. But for today I am focused solely on one thing - my time with Jackson.I haven't seen Jackson since I came here. So much has happened that I don't really know how it … [Read more...]
is anyone having sex?
Now that I have your attention. I am wondering if any of the married folk are having sex ? If so how often? Is it meeting with your needs or are you wanting more than you are getting? Would you rather file your taxes? Has your sex drive gone the way of the dodo bird? Do you crave it or jump … [Read more...]
Thursdays.
Jackson and I meet every Thursday at 2pm at his apartment. This is a day and time when I am meant to be "running errands" so I know no one will miss me. It has become my beacon. It is what keeps me feeling real and gets me out of bed every day. It is what inspires me to hope and to move forward and … [Read more...]
every night a different man calling me on the phone
Every night for the last week a different man is calling me on the phone.With that deep and masculine voiceHe says he needs to count on me.He wants my trust.He wants my confidence.He desires my feedback.He says we can overcome any issues.He assures me he has the solutions.He wants meHe asks if he … [Read more...]
words for wednesday- food vs sex
"Food has replaced sex in my life, now I can't even get into my own pants" … [Read more...]
The Sex, Uh, I Mean SIX-Week Check Up
The nearing date is circled on my calendar when I shall revisit my ob/gyn and have her take a look at my lady bits and deem them fit for wifely duty again. I don't hear many women talking about how they resume their sexual relationship with their spouses once they have healed from delivery, but … [Read more...]
Foreplay: the Response
A few days ago, Nancy from Flying Solo wrote a compelling post, aimed at her male readers, about the importance of foreplay in relationships. She outlined some excellent examples of how to woo a lady into intimacy... but, as a male reader of her blog, I fear I cannot let this topic go without … [Read more...]
Making Salt-n-Pepa Proud
I hate pregnant sex. Always have, always will.Sure, I've heard the stories of women whose libidos increase with the size of their gestating bellies, but the pendulum swings in the opposite direction for me. In my last post many of you chimed in with comments about your steamy pregnant dreams and how … [Read more...]
Can Love Make You Thin?
When I first started writing this article I thought I would add in a funny little intro, essentially making fun of how many calories I have read you can burn while having intercourse. It was always such a high number that I was forced … [Read more...]
Yoga for Love
Yoga For Love: Lets get some Kama Sutra in the house! While perceived many different ways, the term "Kama Sutra" (coined by the ancient book by Mallanaga Vatsyayana's) is for my purpose a segue into the importance of physical connection for couples. Parents often forget how to be … [Read more...]