It’s coming, like it or not. It’s looming right around the corner. The next decade. Officially middle-aged. The big 4-0. Wasn’t I just 20? How did we get here so damn fast? I don’t even feel like an adult yet. Some of my friends are having grandchildren, what the hell is that about? I swear I just … [Read more...]
Top 10 Best New Date Night Restaurants in Toronto
Winter months are here and our lives are a little quieter after the holiday rush. We're taking a little more time to read, catch up on Netflix, and just be cozy. It's also the perfect time to schedule in a few date nights! We've eaten (and have returned to) some of the newest restaurant openings … [Read more...]
I Was Sideswiped By My Own Divorce
Ahh, sometimes I miss my smug married life. I’d been married for 11 years, to the person I thought was my very best friend. We had similar interests, we laughed together, worked as a team, and had grand plans for our mutual futures. I could never understand how people were sideswiped by divorce … [Read more...]
Don’t Be The Mom That’s Never In The Photos
Over the past several years, I have tried to book a family photo shoot at least once, sometimes twice a year. Getting my family coordinated, on a day when there are no other activities, and when everyone is cheerful and the weather is cooperating, can be a challenge. Despite my intentions, sometimes … [Read more...]
Don’t Feel Guilty Over A Little Self Care
I often feel guilty that I don't have a full-time office job. I should be productive, busy, earn a better living, have colleagues, deadlines, pressures, and have a "normal" day like so many other single moms. At least, that's what I tell myself as I look over the job postings in my field. But I … [Read more...]
My Kids’ Brutal Honesty Is Killing My Self-Esteem
“Your hair is turning really grey, that means you’re getting old.” Awesome. Thanks for that keen observation, son. Can I get some ice for that burn? I have come to the conclusion that kids either don’t have a concept of self-esteem or really don’t give a shit about your feelings. I taught … [Read more...]
Now That I’m Getting Re-Married, Will I Still Write About Divorce?
I’ve spent the greater part of four years writing about divorce. It was top of mind 100 percent of the time. I felt that if I shared my experiences, others would be comforted by my pain and heartache. I wrote about my kids’ emotions after the divorce. I wrote about our efforts at co-parenting. I … [Read more...]
Moms, Just Wear The Damn Bikini Already
It’s spring, and to marketers, that means it’s time to ramp up the destruction of women’s self-esteem once more. As we shed our puffy coats, we’re bombarded with images of short-shorts and bikinis, followed closely by 14 Day Fixes, spring cleanses and a thousand different ways to get our bodies … [Read more...]
Five Surefire Ways To Find Friends At 40
Before having kids, my husband and I had a solid group of friends with whom we had fun parties, nights out at bars and movie watching marathons. There was always someone up for something and our social lives were busy. Then we had a baby. Suddenly, we weren’t as fun as we used to be and friendships … [Read more...]
My First Birthday As A Single Parent Was The Hardest
I remember my first birthday as a single mom. It wasn't pretty. I ended up in the throes of a nervous breakdown. I was so overwhelmed with fear and sadness that it was impossible to contain my emotions. In the days leading up to my birthday, I remember sobbing uncontrollably. Dreading the day I … [Read more...]
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