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The Importance Of Reading, Writing And Arithmetics

April 22, 2015 by Alison Tedford 11 Comments

While I am a fan of the arts and sports, I believe in the basics and have tried to instill a love of them into my son. Reading, writing and arithmetic are things I live for in a geeky way and I wanted to share that weird love with him. He has been somewhat reluctant—until recently that is.

shutterstock_114642340 (1)“Mommy, tell me some facts about the world’s deadliest animals!” he demanded, sitting on my bed with his new book in his pjs, poring over it incredulously. He was fascinated. For the last couple years I have been trying to help him read and he has not enjoyed the process. As it turns out, it was about Dick and Jane and how boring it is just seeing them run. If Dick and Jane were at risk of being killed off by exotic parasites, we would have moved past this issue long ago. Who knew?

Also he’s really mad we don’t have a water filtration system in the house, but they are kind of spendy and I feel like there aren’t a lot of parasites in the water in Abbotsford. But what do I know? I’m no biologist.

Just in case he’s not destined to be a biologist either, I wanted him to appreciate writing as a legitimate career choice. He knows I write and watches me banging away at my laptop at odd hours when inspiration strikes. He presented his interest in writing in the most unlikely way. He was asking if he could begin receiving an allowance. I asked how he planned to earn his money. He proposed cleaning his room, something he should be doing anyways, so no deal. Then he had a brilliant idea. “I can write fortunes for you, mommy.” My baby was proposing to receive his first allowance by becoming a freelance writer. Really? It is incredibly difficult to tell a child that writing is not a legitimate way to earn money. Check mate, small human.

His love of arithmetic is really what makes my heart melt. I spend all day playing with spreadsheets, using formulas to analyze endless rows of numbers that seem to blur on the screen if you tilt your head to the side. My day job is the algebra teachers response as to why you should really care why Molly bought 40 watermelons at the grocery store and how many she has left after three friends take three each but maybe return two. As it turns out, you might just need it in real life one day, and they shall call it “employment”.

As for my son, he has picked mathematics that are meaningful to him. He decided hugs shall henceforth be referred to as dollars, and kisses as cents. He’s always running into my room to offer me dollars and cents. “Would you like $8.06, Mommy?” I’ve never been so invested in listening to him count aloud.

It turns out that when you are a mom, reading, writing and arithmetic are anything but basic. They are pure joy and refreshing as a glass of water—minus the parasites.

Filed Under: Education, Parenting Tagged With: education, motherhood, raising boys, rasing a kid, single mom, teaching

Comments

  1. Steena Hammer says

    April 25, 2015 at 1:12 pm

    This is the sweetest post I’ve ever read about how important we are as our child’s first teacher’s in life and how important it is to foster those skills they learn at school so one day they can help Molly realize that she’s got some lame friends returning those watermelons she spent five minutes trying to share equally so everyone gets exactly 3¾.

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    • allie says

      April 25, 2015 at 5:43 pm

      exactly, right? Some people just don’t value fresh produce.

      Reply
  2. Jill Robbins says

    April 24, 2015 at 6:29 pm

    This is really nice. Although I have to tell you I am a little panicked that I blew off Molly and her watermelons a loooong time ago.

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    • allie says

      April 25, 2015 at 5:44 pm

      Oh no! Awkward! Thankfully it turns out you didn’t need the watermelons to succeed 🙂

      Reply
  3. Jill Palcanis Pond says

    April 23, 2015 at 9:27 pm

    This is really sweet. My 7 year old has been learning to read over the past 3 years, and she finally got excited about it when we bought some books about these fairies! You’re right- it has to be exciting for them to want to do it. Great post!

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    • allie says

      April 25, 2015 at 5:44 pm

      Thanks! I hope she enjoys!

      Reply
  4. Alyssa Serben says

    April 23, 2015 at 1:14 am

    I think I need to start teaching this to my 2 year old. Genius

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    • allie says

      April 25, 2015 at 5:45 pm

      Thank you 🙂

      Reply
  5. Ashley Alteman says

    April 23, 2015 at 12:50 am

    Oh! This is fantastic.

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    • allie says

      April 25, 2015 at 5:45 pm

      Thank you!

      Reply

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