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You are here: Home / Life / Holidays / Holiday Gifting Etiquette 101

Holiday Gifting Etiquette 101

December 5, 2014 by Sonya 1 Comment

We’re into December now and I’m sure you’ve made your list of who you need to get gifts for. You’ve got close friends and relatives. Check. You’ve got teachers and maybe neighbours. Check. Then there’s who I call the “fringe” people. They are the people who you’d like to give gifts to because they are part of your life and maybe just want to do something for. But where do you start and what’s appropriate? And more importantly, where do you draw the line?

Internationally recognized etiquette expert, Jacqueline Whitmore, offers some handy tips (no pun intended) for the gifting season.

Firstly, start off with a list of those who you see on a regular basis throughout the year. Think about your hair stylist, babysitter, and dogwalker..those types and then figure out your budget. Be realistic to what you can do and stick to it. “If you live in a major metropolitan area, the expected tipping range is slightly higher,” says Whitmore. “Increase the tip for those whom you have a friendship and those who go above and beyond the call of duty.”

Gift what you can! “Tips are appreciated, but not mandatory. If you’re budget is limited, opt for a small gift and a thank you note. If you’re unsure of who can receive tips, call the company and ask if there are any guidelines and customs.”

How do you deliver your gift? “Hand-deliver your tip when possible and accompany with a hand-written card on or before December 25 or whenever you are with the person during the holiday season.”

So what’s the suggested rate?

Manicurist: $25 to $50, or a gift

Hair Stylist: $50 to $100, or a gift

Barber: up to the cost of one haircut, or a gift

Personal Trainer: up to the cost of one session, or a gift

Housekeeper: up to the cost of one visit

Au pair or Live-in nanny: one or two week’s pay and a gift from your children

Teacher: a gift card or gift certificat for up to $25, or pitch in with other parents to get a larger denomination gift certificate

Day care provider: $20 to $70 each, plus a small gift from your child

Babysitter: an evening’s pay, plus a gift from your child

Massage Therapist: up to the cost of one session, or a gift

Doorman: $15 to $100

Mail Carrier: $20 gift card or a small gift

Newspaper Carrier: $10 to $30

Yard or Garden Worker: $20 to $50, or a gift card

Dog Walker: up to one week’s pay or a gift

Pet Groomer: up to the cost of one session or a gift

Your favourite blogger: kidding!

Remember this is just a GUIDE; not everyone will want to give gifts to all those on our list and that is a-okay! Hope this helps guide you through the holidays. I know it can get overwhelming with the fringe people but use your own judgement. After all, it IS the thought that counts!

Jacqueline WhitmoreJacqueline Whitmore has helped thousands of people around the world to be more courteous and confident in the business and social worlds. She’s an etiquette expert, author and founder of The Protocol School of Palm Beach. In 2011, she published her book Poised for Success and Business Class: Etiquette Essentials for Success at Work (2005). Whitmore has appeared on a variety of national television shows including ABC’s 20/20, CNN’s Anderson Cooper 360, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, ExtraTV, CNBC and more. She’s also been featured and quoted in newspapers and magazine around the world.

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Holidays, Life Tagged With: Etiquette, holiday gifts, Jacqueline Whitmore

Comments

  1. Carol Harrison says

    December 9, 2014 at 12:20 am

    Hey Sonya,

    Aw I’d give you a present any day! How about adding to the list the local crossing guard? Bob, our local crossing guard, knows the kids by name….glad I read this. I’m adding Bob to the xmas list. Happy Holidays Sonya!

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