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You are here: Home / Uncategorized / A Special and Unique Wedding in Ottawa

A Special and Unique Wedding in Ottawa

August 19, 2009 by amreen

DSC03415a.jpgIn early August, the Girl and I made a trip to Ottawa to attend my friend, Banoo’s, wedding.  I met Banoo in the summer of ’91, while taking a summer course in Organic Chemistry at  Dalhousie University.  We lived in the same little rooming house and studied together. 

Since those few sweet months in Halifax, we’ve never lived in the same city.  However, our friendship has lasted over the years, through phone and letters, and now through email and Facebook.  I was thrilled to be there for Banoo’s special day, and it was a great experience to share that with my elder daughter. 

Over the course of the weekend, I realised the importance of spending “alone” time with each of my children.  In Ottawa, we stayed with my cousin and her lovely family, which was a fun, added bonus to the trip.

My friend Banoo, is a Bohri Muslim, a sect of Shia Muslims that is incredibly rich in history and culture.  The wedding was a fantastic opportunity to experience some of these traditions in a celebratory and authentic setting.

Mehndi, or henna, plays an important role in the bride’s attire, as it does in most Indian wedding.  Banoo was a stunning bride with gorgeous mehndi adorning her hands.

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 The food at the wedding was some of the most delicious wedding food I have ever tasted.  Shortly after the beautiful Nikaah (marriage) ceremony, we were escorted to the dining room, where groups of six people were seated on the floor around a raised table.  On the table was  large stainless steel plate, the thaal, upon which, the six of us dining together.  Spooning out each delicious course after the next, we ate and laughed together, cumulatively joyous over the wedding and the savoury meal.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Bohri, food, Muslim, Ottawa, wedding

Comments

  1. Aubrey Belluz says

    September 17, 2010 at 6:52 pm

    Your guests will be dying to see pictures of your wedding, so by using digital wedding photography you can have your photographer post your pictures quickly on your own personal website/online photo album.

  2. Date an Asian Girl says

    January 6, 2010 at 9:14 pm

    Date an Asian Girl

    This past weekend was the bachlorette party in Philadelphia. It was amazing. I started out by picking up Keri from her house and we literally screamed with excitement when we saw each other haha. We drove over to Cooper’ s house and it seriously felt l…

  3. banoo the bride says

    October 5, 2009 at 2:07 pm

    Hi Sabita,
    More details about the wedding customs can be found here:
    http://www.mumineen.org/archive/deen/sharia/marriage/
    But I highly recommend just discussing it more with your boyfriend and his family to find out your comfort level, since (1) they probably know about many of these traditions, and (2) all the wedding festivities go on for a few days which you are both going to participate in together, with your families an close friends. Planning a wedding really brings a couple closer together, with each other and the families.
    Good luck!
    Banoo

  4. Sabita says

    October 5, 2009 at 11:08 am

    Hi! Could you kindly give me like an email address of your friend who got married? My boyfriend is bohra but i’m a sunni from another country and I just wanted to know what were the customs of the bohri wedding. Please excuse me if I’ve caused any inconvinience. Just the personal information would really help about marriage customs. Thanks

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