Did you see this video that went viral yesterday? The one questioning how in hell we survived as children in the 60s, 70s and 80s?
I loved it.
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Honestly. We used to leave the house in the morning and not come back until the street lights went on. I remember not making the volleyball team that my friends made. And I can tell you it never happened again. We drank kool-aid. We didn’t wear helmets. I got in trouble a few times at school and this led to bigger trouble at home. I remember climbing on the roof of the school and lightning matches that we had taken from Ritchie’s with my friend Cheryl and getting busted by the kids down the street who ratted us out to our parents. I think Cheryl beat one of them up later. We would spend our days roaming the ‘hood, going from one house to the other. (Never ours because my dad wisely didn’t heat the pool to keep the kids away..:)).
Was it all wise? God no. Do I make my kid wear a helmet now? Most of the time. Will he be roaming freely around our neighbourhood at age 7. Maybe not. Some things change with common sense. But aren’t we over doing it?
I was thinking about that video last night, when a different one popped up in my feed.
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Let me preface this by saying for parents with autistic children who are wanderers? This is an incredible product. If that’s who they were marketing to, I’d be all over it. But I’m sorry, for children not on the spectrum. What’s next? Chipping?
Is it just me or are we getting WAY carried away with fear and safety? Or am I just feeling nostalgic for the good old days when my mom was too busy smoking and chatting with the neighbours to worry about where the hell we were.
Thoughts?
Sara Lanthier says
thanks maribeth – I need to have a longer read of it – I just skimmed it and it’s fascinating!
Maribeth says
I just read this article and it’s totally about the impact of being overprotective parents. You’ll find it interesting considering your post here: http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2014/03/hey-parents-leave-those-kids-alone/358631/
Julie says
i’m sure there are times when even our parents wished this technology existed 🙂 while it can be a good tool for some (as you mentioned) i believe education is still the best tool for streetproofing.
my girls have broached the subject of a cell phone…they know they can’t have one yet but are wondering when. i’ve told them my stance…i don’t want you clutching a phone or having it in your backpack thinking it’s a safety tool. the kidnapper is not going to wait for you to get it out and call for help. i want you to look people in the eye and use your brain and legs, not get dependent on a device.