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The Last Party

November 18, 2013 by Christine 3 Comments

Cuyler turned eleven last Wednesday.
Yesterday he celebrated his birthday with friends.
It took me a while to figure out where to host it; I needed somewhere age appropriate for the friends he was inviting at the same time be able to hold Cuyler’s interest.
Cuyler’s first suggestion was to invite 8 friends over for a sleepover to watch a Wiggles marathon. I was pretty confident that, as much as they all like and respect Cuyler, none of them would have showed up for that. Besides, eight kids over for a sleepover? Nothankyou.
His second suggestion was Chuck E. Cheese. I decided after his last party there that I would never again have a party in that cesspool of noise, bad food and poor hostessing.
Campbell actually made the suggestion for where we ended up – Champs in Milton. Bowling, eating, playdium arcade.
It was perfect.

Cuyler bowling alongside his oldest friend, who he has been going to school with since preschool.

Cuyler bowling alongside his oldest friend, who he has been going to school with since preschool.

Good times with good friends!

Good times with good friends!

Arcade fun!

Arcade fun!

Cuyler and the boy he refers to as his "best friend". For good reason.

Cuyler and the boy he refers to as his “best friend”. For good reason.

This birthday was a special one. The way we do it in our family is that after grade 5 and once you head into middle school, you don’t have a birthday party – so this was Cuyler’s last.
Cam usually invites a friend or two over for a sleepover, but the organized birthday parties are done.

As we were winding down last night and Cuyler was going through his gifts, he said “Thanks for my party, Mom. It was great!”
It was. It really was great.

I'm posting this group shot, despite the unfortunate rootbeer spill on the Birthday Boys's pants.

I’m posting this group shot, despite the unfortunate rootbeer spill on the Birthday Boy’s pants.

Do you do organized birthday parties for your kids?  When do you stop with them?

 

 

 

Filed Under: Friendship, Life Tagged With: arcade, autism, birthday, birthday party, bowling, Champs, friends, friendship

Comments

  1. Kat Clarke Murray says

    November 21, 2013 at 2:57 am

    Looks like it was an awesome party. Setting a limit on big parties like that is a brilliant idea. I didn’t set that rule in advance, but I managed to get my oldest to just have a bunch of friends for a low-key sleepover for her 13th this fall.

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  2. Anne says

    November 19, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    We also stop organized parties when they hit double digits too. Limit it to 1 or 2 friends for a sleepover and special family dinner.

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  3. Grumble Girl says

    November 18, 2013 at 8:23 pm

    I hadn’t even considered a cut-off time for birthday parties… something to consider, for sure!! And I’m SO GLAD your boy had a blast! Looks like it was a lot of fun, Super Mom! xox

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