Dear Valentine,
Can you believe that you have been my Valentine for nearly half of my life? Amazing. Did you know that it is because of you that I even understand love? Not just the kind of love that gives you butterflies and makes your heart hurt but the kind that feels as warm and comforting as a favourite sweater, dependable and effortless. You gave that to me.
In the early days it was a challenge. I was insecure and suspicious. You were calm and patient. And eventually I got it. Eventually I realized that you love me just the way I am. You encouraged me to take risks, to ask myself tough questions, and to grow and evolve in ways I never dreamed possible. It is because of your quiet, constant love that I am who I am.
Now it is many years and two children later and you are still by my side. Your commitment to our family is the greatest gift. I am so grateful for your perspective on life, your childlike love of fun and your generous spirit. Our lives are so full and we are so lucky to have each other.
Yes, I know you would prefer to remain behind the scenes but today I want the world to know that I am the luckiest woman alive. I want to thank you, Valentine, for everything that you have given me. I look forward to being your Valentine for the rest of my life.
Love always,
Jen xo