“How can I be your lover when I am so busy being your mother?”
This is a name of a new book that caught my attention in response to what seems to be fewer and fewer married women wanting to have sex with their husbands or even having sex at all with their husbands.
“In How Can I Be Your Lover When I’m Too Busy Being Your Mother? Sara Dimerman and J.M. Kearns lay bare an essential problem: the woman who finds she’s turned into a mother to her man instead of the equal and intimate partner she once was.
She has a day job just like he does, yet at home she finds herself doing most of the housework, running the home, and being in charge of the child rearing, which makes her his boss in the one palce they spend most of their time together. This leaves her feeling angry and resentful–hardly conducive to being lovers. Dimerman and Kearns boldly confront the issues, allowing both sexes to vent in a no-holds-barred exchange that ranges from hostile to hilarious. They deconstruct the problem using real-life example and lay out a step-by-step path that will enable any couple to get back to being equal partners again.”
She has a day job just like he does, yet at home she finds herself doing most of the housework, running the home, and being in charge of the child rearing, which makes her his boss in the one palce they spend most of their time together. This leaves her feeling angry and resentful–hardly conducive to being lovers. Dimerman and Kearns boldly confront the issues, allowing both sexes to vent in a no-holds-barred exchange that ranges from hostile to hilarious. They deconstruct the problem using real-life example and lay out a step-by-step path that will enable any couple to get back to being equal partners again.”
Interesting. Thoughts, folks?
Sara – I love you – so funny.
Nancy – I have definitely found myself in that role and hate it. I’ve been working on changing it (only when I find the energy – which isn’t much). I’ll be buying that one along with Maria and Jill!
I’d just like to have sex.
Me too!
yes, I need to buy this book!!!