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You are here: Home / Parenting / Family / when objects tell a story

when objects tell a story

January 12, 2012 by Nancy

 I find inanimate objects can hold a whole story and an entire set of memories.

When I was at school, I had a soft pink shirt that my friend Nancy and I called “the kissing shirt” because  anyone who wore it would be so irrisistable that she would be kissed. That shirt got borrowed by so many girls for its magic powers. If I had that shirt today, it would tell many stories.

Today, I have two  objects that hold many stories
One is the 48 sidewalk squares between Sam’s house and my house.
sidewalk squares.jpg
On those squares in the last 4 years the six of us have run back and forth- in flip flops, and boots, carrying dresses to try on and essays to proofread, holding casseroles and pots of veggies, flowers and Christmas presents, carrying joy to share and burden to divide. Stories of dates, and marks and sadness and laughter.
I love those sidewalk squares.
The other story telling object is my island- not in the ocean (drats)- right here in my kitchen.
my island.jpg
 On that island so many wonderful people have pulled up to share a story.  A man in a tuxedo, a child in a bathing suit, a girl from Uganda, a boy from Nicaragua, my postman Lloyd,  friends in yoga gear, halloween costumes, with homework and diaries, a joke to tell, a story to share, a secret to trust. They pull up here to have a drink of wine,  a hot chocolate, an after school snack, a kleenex for tears, candies and fruit, veggies and dip, cheese and crackers. Often they might laugh so hard they fall off the chair.
  One day when I was cleaning I saw that there are huge denim stains on the wall where all the knees go. I love that. I did not wipe them off.
 
Maybe all time  favourite  story this island would tell would  be the lovely Kate and her beautiful mom arriving to tell us about Kate’s engagement.
These objects tell stories, hold memories and are alive to me.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: friendship, love, memories, separation and divorce, single mom blog, the future, the past

Comments

  1. Idas says

    January 12, 2012 at 10:37 am

    We should all have denim stains. Lovely post Nancy.

  2. Sara says

    January 12, 2012 at 9:55 am

    I love that you left the jean marks…I think Will almost added some marker marks..

  3. Tracey says

    January 12, 2012 at 8:11 am

    Lovely, Village… xox

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