Ahh, sometimes I miss my smug married life.
I’d been married for 11 years, to the person I thought was my very best friend. We had similar interests, we laughed together, worked as a team, and had grand plans for our mutual futures. I could never understand how people were sideswiped by divorce until I was. I mean, really, how do you miss the signs that your partner is at the end of their rope? How can you seriously not hear the warning bells? We would talk about the state of friends’ marriages, and gloat about how our own was bulletproof.
Except it wasn’t.
Time wears on a couple. Through financial strain, having children, losing babies, job stress, family tension… eventually, even the best relationships start to fray around the edges. I always thought we did it all “right”. We dated for many years, we talked about our hopes and dreams, we based a romantic relationship on a friendship, and we didn’t fight much at all—but I suppose we never really did the regular maintenance that a long-term relationship needs to survive.
Thinking back, I wonder where we diverged—what went wrong? Or maybe it was never really right? I don’t know what constitutes a solid relationship, really. I’ve never been head over heels in love, I’ve never been lost for breath without a partner, and I wonder if my standoffishness had anything to do with the demise of my marriage.
One day it was just . . . over.
Of course, that’s simplifying things, but the truth is, I never saw the end coming. There were no regular fights, no hostility, no resentment I didn’t see as surmountable. I thought every marriage had ups and downs, and that the slumps we experienced would pass. I never expected anything to be irreparable, and I never expected to be facing divorce at 42. But here I am. I could spend forever trying to figure it all out, but if 11 months hasn’t given me any answers, I doubt it’s worth pondering indefinitely. The reality is that sometimes things are too broken to fix, and moving forward is the only way through.
I’m no expert obviously (hahahahaha), but I know that I’d never do things the same again. I can see where I lost myself, I can see that my life had lost its shine, but I can also see that I was resigned to the idea that that’s just how life is at this stage—having young kids is trying on anyone, right?
I may not know how to prevent this kind of relationship end, but I sure know what to do once it’s happened. When my partner told me he was leaving, my first reactions were all ones borne of deep emotion. Crying, pleading, scrambling to hold us together—too little too late. I went to counselling and was given permission to do something I hadn’t done in decades: focus on myself. I’m going to tell you that if you’re facing divorce, things will be okay. It may not feel that way right now, but if you take some healthy first steps, you’ll soon be on the road to happiness again.
Here are some helpful first steps for anyone who’s been sideswiped by divorce:
• Take a deep breath
Don’t react until you’ve had time to think. I know, it’s almost impossible when the rug has been yanked out from under you. But here’s the thing—if you really think about it, there have to be underlying problems in a relationship for any party to want out that badly. Really sit with yourself and think about your own happiness, and nothing else. If you have young children, you’ll have to be strong for them, and acting from a place of logic rather than heated emotions will help.
• Separate Finances Immediately
Open your own bank account, and discuss finalizing financial disclosure documents. I wish we’d done this immediately, but it’s so difficult to see through the emotions to get down to the business part of a separation, that this is something that often slides. But the sooner you have a clear financial picture, the sooner you can breathe, and see that you’re going to be fine. But take note: your finances are 50/50 until your separation agreement is finalized, so if you think revenge spending is a good idea, think again.
• Seek counselling
This was key to my survival. I poured my heart out to a kind counsellor who had zero real answers for me, but a ton of support. Nobody can tell you what you should do, or why this happened because nobody has lived your life, but a good counsellor or therapist can give you the tools needed to work on yourself and emerge from the ashes whole again.
• Learn about the process
This one was scary for me—the mere word “divorce” made my heart pound, and I felt nauseous. But the more I researched, the more empowered I felt. Knowing your rights makes you feel less abandoned or hopeless. Financial insecurity must be the biggest worry in this process, so find out what your options are, and how you can both get to the end without unnecessary fighting. I was in the dark with regards to many household finances, but seeing everything on paper made things seem daunting, challenging, but manageable.
• Lean on good friends
I’ve learned that there is no end to the “friends” who are ready to slam your spouse for their “selfish” decision to divorce. There are people who’ll forget we may have played a part in our marital demise, and much like any other crutch, this kind of support feels good but doesn’t heal us. We need the friends who will listen and support, hold us together, and it’s even better (sadly) if they’ve walked this path. Reach out to support groups (like this amazing one on Facebook) for info on how to get through things, and how to co-parent effectively.
Being sideswiped by divorce is one of the most challenging things I’ve had to wade through, and I’m not saying it’s smooth sailing now, but I haven’t cried in months.
And that’s progress.
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Email ([[email protected]] (Telegram: + 1 (415) 727-9880))
KeycheinX can help you recover lost Bitcoin & Ethereum passwords with our expert Wallet Recovery Services. KeycheinX has been trusted by people all over the world since 2017. Contact us: [[email protected]]([email protected]) if you need help.
Lost your Trezor Passphrase?
Need help recovering your Ethereum Presale, Geth or MIST password?
ERC20 Tokens from Metamask.
Need to recover Bitcoin from Multibit Classic or Multibit HD wallet.
Want to access Bitcoin from an Schildbach Android wallet, Electrum or blockchain.com
Blockchain.info mnemonic or seed words.
If you only have access to your public key there is nothing we can do. We do not accept wallets that you have purchased or downloaded from the web. Those are usually forged. You can also read more about our wallet recovery services by visiting our LIVEJOURNAL BLOG at
Below some FAQ or Frequently asked questions;
What does KeycheinX do?
We recover mainly lost stolen Bitcoin and Ethereum wallet passwords from damaged files, computers, phones or online wallets. Our password recovery service has developed special software that can take your best password guess and generate variations in order to decrypt your wallet. We can also recover deleted wallets from hard drives, pen drives or phones.
Can I recover bitcoin from a damaged phone?
Yes we can help you recover crypto currencies from a dead device like Iphone or Android. We would need physical access to the device and you would need to ship it to one of our labs in Europe.
My laptop no longer boots, do you also recover damaged hard drives?
Yes, you can ship your laptop or hard drive to one of our locations worldwide. We can bypass the login and search for lost or deleted wallet files.
We also recover hardware Trezor/Ledger wallets with wrong seed or lost passphrases. We can help you with Shamir secret seed shares or lost hidden wallets when connecting a Trezor to Metamask.
How long have KeycheinX been around?
Our service has been helping people all over the world since 2017. We can help you recover most encrypted files and Private Key recovery, but we mainly focus on Bitcoin and Ethereum password recoveries. Although we do other coins as well like Dogecoin, Solana or BNB chain tokens.
Do you help recover scams?
YES. If you have been scammed or sent crypto to a wrong address then there is no way to reverse it but it can be recovered. Never trust anyone who asks for payment upfront to recover stolen cryptocurrency. Verify their legitimacy before taking any action. If you pay upfront or an exit “tax” then the scammers will scam you again.
What is the best way to contact KeycheinX Lost Crypto & Wallet Recovery Services?
Please visit . We usually answer within 24 hours, if we don’t it might have been that your email has been flagged as spam. Don’t hesitate to send us an email again as we usually answer within a day to every inquiry. If someone contacts you on Telegram, Facebook, Instagram, Quora or X claiming to be from KeycheinX and asks for any credentials or upfront payment, then it’s a scam. We never contact people on those forums or ask for upfront payments. We only sell software to open wallets.
Where are you located?
KeycheinX head office is located at 12 Pike St, New York, NY 10002. Although we have several labs and server rooms scattered around different locations.
How is KeycheinX Lost Crypto & Wallet Recovery Services different from other Crypto Recovery Services?
We have a strong media and conference presence. Since 2017, our team has participated as partners or sponsors at many conferences. We have sponsored conferences in Miami, Las Vegas, UAE, Malta, Rome, Frankfurt, London, Singapore, Dubai, Tokyo and Hong Kong.
About Us
The story began in 2017 when a friend of ours lost access to his Ledger device with 150 Ethereum inside. During two evenings we helped the individual to recover his crypto and while working on his case, we discovered how many other people were looking for help with lost Crypto and Wallets. We currently run several laboratories in different parts of the world and constantly develop and discover new possibilities in recovery. KeycheinX is the oldest incorporated company helping individuals to recover their lost Bitcoin or Ethereum.
Where can we read more about KeycheinX Wallet Recovery Services? Please click on the link below or send us an email
Email: [[email protected]]
Telegram: + 1 (415) 727-9880
Go to link:
Email: [[email protected]]
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Thanks for this. I was side-swiped too … after 25 years together. I thought I was the luckiest girl in the world, that we were meant to be together. We laughed every day. I felt like a fool after he made his announcement that he was “divorcing me”. How could I have been so blind?. In retrospect, his mid life crisis had been happening for a few years . It’s been 2.5 years and it is still hard … I think back about what I could have done differently, even though that is not productive. Unfortunately, it has not been amicable at all .. once he made his decision, he also decided to try to destroy me and he has made every single step terrible.
I’m so sorry. It’s so hard, and never feels fair.
Thank you. I needed to read that.